To everyone who’s ever created something and shared it online, I’d like to say one thing:

I’m sorry.

See, those of us who’ve been doing this for awhile now — we’re the ones who invented blogging, and tweeting, and YouTubing, and social networking, and we’ve been preaching about “the digital revolution” for the past 10 or 20 years — we all got it wrong.

We thought the medium would change the media.

We thought the gatekeepers were dead.

We thought meaning mattered.

Nope. We all blew it.

And unfortunately there’s no going back.

How We Misread the Digital Tea Leaves

A funny thing happened around the turn of the millennium.

Those of us who were busy pioneering the digital formats we now all take for granted believed then that our newly “democratized” means of media production would change media as we know it. We presumed that audience tastes would change with the new formats, and that traditional media channels (TV, film, radio, publishing) would need to adapt to our way of life.

Why? Because we were ahead of the curve. We saw the potential of new forms, and we thought we’d be able to harness them faster than the “dinosaur” media conglomerates we derided.

We were right about our own speed, but that’s because most of us were young and childless then, so we had nothing but time to tinker with these new toys. We could afford to spend days and weeks and years perfecting our videoblogs and podcasts and other labors of love because we still felt like the underdogs who had something to prove to the dinosaurs we were outfoxing.

We claimed we wanted to plant our flag in their territory… but we were only being half honest.

Problem is, we also courted those same dinosaurs, because we wanted them to play in our sandbox. We wanted the validation of their attention and their money. We wanted them to acknowledge that we were right, and to reward us with seats at their table. We just thought we’d be the ones who’d be able to set the new rules, just because we were there first.

Boy, were we wrong.

What Happens When You Ask All the Wrong Questions?

I was at the first PodCamp, back in 2006, when “podcasting” was new enough that it was still called “podcasting,” and the people who did it were rare enough that we could pretty much all meet in a single auditorium. And the question we all asked ourselves then was, “When will brands realize this is the new way to communicate?”

Whoops. Be careful what you ask for.

I was at the first Video on the Net conference back in 2006, when such an idea was revolutionary enough to actually be termed “revolutionary.” We were the rebels in cargo shorts getting strange looks from the suits who thought we were a fad. And the question we all asked ourselves then was, “When is old media going to wake up and catch up?”

Whoops again.

Instead of trying to find our own ways to succeed, we were trying to make our new media fit the old paradigm. And when you do that, the old paradigm will gladly eat you alive.

In 2007 or 2008, I was invited to a focus group at Turner Broadcasting. A roomful of us who were social media creators spent a day giving Turner our thoughts on the future of media. We were thrilled; we thought we were being taken seriously.

None of us were self-aware enough to realize we were actually volunteering our own demise.

(I think they paid each of us $3000 for the privilege. I could be wrong; it may have been $1000.)

What we were too inexperienced and deluded to realize was this: as soon as we proved that these new formats could work, the dinosaurs who stood to make actual money with them would co-opt these channels and fill them with the same media (and the same business models) they’ve always followed. They didn’t need us, and we didn’t really need them… but we thought we did. So we started playing their game, hoping we’d win. But we lost.

And as these new systems got rolled into the old processes, what changed wasn’t the processes; it was us.

When In Rome…

Some of us sold our “social” skills to brands as a means to make ourselves seem newly relevant. Big business knew there was money to be made by advertising to hordes of eyeballs, and if we knew how to attract those eyeballs, weren’t we useful?

We figured out pretty early on that we could make money teaching old dogs new tricks. It took us longer to realize that these old dogs would eventually master our tricks and we’d need to find a new way to remain relevant (and employable) to them.

So we started becoming social media marketers… then social marketers… and eventually just marketers. What mattered wasn’t the media, it was the reach. What mattered wasn’t the community, it was the degree to which they could be monetized.

Those of us who used to dream of a new digital future never thought that future would just end up being us using the tools we once loved to convince strangers to buy someone else’s products, for which we’d be rewarded with book deals about the value of trust and influence.

It took us even longer to admit that nobody on YouTube was getting a TV series anytime soon.

Nothing to See Here, Move Along…

Now we live in a world where Facebook and Twitter have gone IPO, which means they exist to please shareholders and advertisers, not users.

Now we live in an age when Yahoo! makes headlines for announcing they’re getting into the TV business… by seeking series deals from established TV professionals, not Internet creators.

Now we live in a reality where some of us are apologizing to brands for misleading them into a social economy, because once we opened those gates, the brands and the social networkers both suffered from a pollution of white noise and an atrophying ability to care.

And now I feel it’s worth apologizing to everyone else who isn’t a corporation. I feel it’s worth acknowledging that our old dream of self-created digital media “rock stars” who would change the way the world works was, at best, naive and, at worst, dangerous.

Because while we early adopters were patting ourselves on the back for “getting it,” we were unwittingly painting a target on the back of the whole digital revolution.

And I, for one, would like to start making up for it.

Image by hryckowian via Flickr


Abedrossian · May 16, 2014 at 12:46 pm

Don’t feel bad. The revolution was coming, sooner or later. The smaller brands will always be more nimble than the big ones, though, don’t you think? Community will always remain community, I think. Do you think people will truly relate to a faceless corporation’s social media profile?
Oh and, Brilliant Birthday sir!

    Justin Kownacki · May 16, 2014 at 1:35 pm

    Thanks. I’m not sure if people need to relate to a brand, as much as they need to believe it embodies their values.

whitneyhoffman · April 27, 2014 at 5:36 pm

I was at Barcamp News Innovation this weekend, and in one of the presentations, we talked about Content Shock. We’ve all told companies what they need to do to create meaningful content online, and the game keeps changing in terms of how to get audience and attention, and how much you now have to pay in order to get attention other than from your natural community.

I miss the smaller community we had, but I’m also convinced we can recreate aspects of it, but they have to be more purposeful communities and less wide open in order to maintain that feel.

What I learned is bigger is not always better. Quality over quantity every time.

kentropic · April 22, 2014 at 4:09 pm

What’s the old proverb about age and treachery overcoming youth and skill? The ancient Greeks had it right, as they so often do.

SpaceyG · April 21, 2014 at 9:11 am

Deep-pocketed marketeers have won the digital arena. As oligarchs have won the political one. (And I doubt Turner paid us $3K. 1K maybe. At best.)

Cheryl · April 20, 2014 at 8:44 pm

You know what I miss most about the “early days” of social media? COMMUNITY. We had it, we gave it away. What a shame. And I agree, there’s no way to go back and recapture that. So what can we do? Because I really, really miss the community I had from 05-08. That shite was powerful. I’ve never felt so connected to people — those I knew IRL, and those I didn’t (many of whom who because friends IRL by the way).

And now. Now it’s all noise. And I have very little interest in social media at all anymore (days and sometimes weeks go by between tweets), mostly because it is just noise, and it is just marketing, and ho hum. It’s so, so, very boring.

Obviously, I still care enough to interact and engage, or I wouldn’t be commenting here on your blog. (Great blog by the way!)

So… um. Now what? Or does it even matter?

Maybe I’ll go outside and play with my 7 year old. She’s way more fun.

Thanks for the thought provoking post. Really enjoyed it.

btrandolph · April 20, 2014 at 2:26 pm

it is easier to apologize than ask permission.

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