I blog a lot about the importance of audience. Now I’d like to understand my own audience a bit better.
NOTE: This is a long and winding post, and you may be in a hurry. If so, let me ask you for a quick favor: my whole reason for writing this post is to better understand you. Here’s how you can help me do that:
- Short version: In the comments, please list 3 things YOU would like to see discussed more often on my blog.
- Slightly longer, yet ultimately more useful version: Take this short survey to help me better understand your experience level, what topics you’re interested in and why, so I can better provide you with discussions you’ll care about.
And now, back to the post at hand.
Writing in the Dark
As a writer, I like to be read. I also like knowing that what I’ve written is beneficial to the people who read it. And I like to converse and debate with my audience in ways that advance our collective understanding of the topics we’re passionate about.
Lately, many of us who blog about social media have been urging its practitioners to improve. We’re tired of the mediocrity and we’re demanding more from this rich medium that’s practically overflowing with potential.
The problem is, that potential never seems to be reached because we all spend too much time rehashing the same topics and polishing our own reputations, rather than collectively pushing the medium forward.
But for those of us who would like to discuss these issues at a more “advanced” level, there’s a catch:
Because our audiences come to us for advice and insights, we spend the bulk of our time educating others and far too little time pursuing the lessons we need to improve ourselves.
What we need is to do both at once. But how?
NOT by Biting the Hand That Feeds You
As our commenters have pointed out across these “improvement” manifestos, the vast majority of the people who read our blogs are the people who need to be educated by us. Forsaking them would be bad business and bad karma, because it’s unwise (and unprofitable) to turn our backs on those very people who have validated us as being “knowledgeable” in the first place.
Instead of lamenting what we perceive as a lack of quality in social media, we’re better off leading by example. This includes:
- Producing the best media that we can create ourselves
- Providing examples of work that we believe is exemplary
- Explaining HOW to create work that matters, with examples
- Interviewing the very practitioners that we would like to learn from
- Conducting experiments to gather, analyze and summarize our own data
- Focusing less on the quantity of our own output and more on the quality
- Refraining from “doing it wrong” when we recognize our own bad habits
- Innovating within existing tools and formats to show what’s possible
By doing so, we can continue to provide the insights we’ve become known for, while streamlining our own processes and minimizing the amount of white noise that we, ourselves, generate.
But there’s still one missing link: we need to know who we’re talking to in the first place.
Preaching to the Void
This week, I taught a two-hour “social media crash course” at Baltimore’s Creative Alliance. The attendees varied widely in their experience levels and their intentions for social media. Some wanted to sell their work, some wanted to network with peers, and some had almost no online experience whatsoever.
But they all had one thing in common: I could see them.
Online, we never really know who we’re interfacing with. We’re never sure how much attention they’re giving us, or when they lose interest, or why. All we know is that X number of visitors read what we write, and a subset of them share our media with others. Even the best analytic tools can’t provide the same context as a personal relationship.
So let’s try asking for one.
As I mentioned above, I’d like to know more about you. This is not so I can market to you, or place demographically-appropriate ads on my blog. As you may have noticed, this blog is ad-free and I don’t expect to change that anytime soon. What I am interested in is better serving you.
Because you want to learn, and so do I. And the more I know about you, the better equipped I’ll be to provide you with the information you care about, in a format that will encourage debate and discussion. When both sides feel they’re directly connected, that’s the first step toward improving social media (and our overall experiences), day by day.
Have a second? Leave a comment and let me know 3 things you’d like to see discussed more often on this blog.
Have a minute? Take this short survey, so I can wrap my head around the slightly bigger picture of me, you and “us.”
And thanks for sharing.
(Also, thanks to Jordan Cooper, Christopher Penn, Lindsay Baish, Steve Klabnik and verso, whose tweets helped me shape the direction of this post. See? Audiences do make a difference…)
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