I know we’re inundated with more information every day than we could ever hope to make use (or sense) of.  And I understand that we’re all too busy to fully absorb any multifaceted discussions or complex narratives.

But why does every story we tell ourselves end up being reduced to just another case of “either-or”?

In America (at least), every headline can be boiled down to a choice between warring ideologies or identities, but there never seem to be more than two combatants.  It’s always Leno OR Conan, liberal OR conservative, bailouts OR collapse, etc.

As Highlander once reminded us, “There can be only one.”  And every story we tell is just another rung on that dichotomous ladder, either up or down but always en route to a single, final victory: one dominant political theory, one popularized framing of history, one accepted version of “the truth.”

And it has to stop.

How the Stories We Tell Are Tearing Us Apart

Modern media frames every news item as a sporting event, in which there must be a winner and a loser, underdogs and dynasties, slumps and grooves.  Every conflict is war.  And since all of our stories are told at such a primitive level, we’re never challenged to see more than just “us” and “the other.”

This cognitive shorthand makes it easy for you to choose sides.  You know who your friends are, you know who your enemy is, and you’re spared the arduous task of making up your own mind.  After all, who has time to research opposing viewpoints, consider bigger pictures and weigh potential outcomes?  Life is short.  Better to simply declare yourself part of Team Conan and move on to whatever else is worth your time for the next four minutes.

But what happens when reality shifts?  What happens when your favorite player switches teams, or when your elected official changes parties?  Is he now “the enemy?”  Or is he a complex person who made a complicated choice, which you now have to evaluate and form your own conclusion about (if you can)?

Speaking broadly, how are we supposed to evolve as a society when our news, our entertainment and our public culture is predicated on winners and losers, “right” OR “wrong,” “yes” OR “no”?  How do we voluntarily accept a culture that refuses to make room for “maybe,” “sometimes” and “better than or worse than, depending on the circumstances?”

Part of the answer is that audiences are only trained to process one kind of story: the kind that sells.

We’re All Just Cavemen with Laptops

If you want to become a screenwriter, most experts will suggest you read Robert McKee’s Story, which is an excellent resource for writers who want to learn how to tell exactly the same kinds of stories people have been telling since the dawn of human communication.

Like Joseph Campbell’s The Hero with a Thousand Faces, which frames the bulk of human narrative as a quest, McKee separates all narratives into two easily-digestible camps: stories in which a hero overcomes obstacles to obtain his goal — AKA “good stories” — and everything else.  Thus, every story worth telling must be told in a three-act structure.  We need heroes, villains, friends and a love interest.  We need to establish the premise, overcome the obstacles and defeat the bad guy.  Anything less is French.

Given this framework, it’s no wonder every (American) story is told at such a primal level of complexity.  Simpler = broader = more bankable.  All that needs to change are the details, so we’ll always have something new to buy.

Simple stories with obvious heroes also fuel our need for self-identification.  When we’re presented with a complex narrative, we need to know which participant(s) we’re supposed to empathize with.  Who shares our ideals and fights our fight?  Becoming emotionally attached to someone you later have to re-evaluate screws with your own sense of self.  Better to keep the white and black hats clearly defined.

But reality isn’t a football game, and it doesn’t follow a three-act structure.  Sports heroes turn out to be philanderers, politicians alternate between saviors and goats, and Mother Nature is notoriously ambivalent.  If we don’t provide ourselves with the cultural ammunition to understand the complexities of the world we live in, we become incapable of processing diverse opinions, identifying multiple causes and effects and appreciating incremental degrees of change.

Instead, we ignore the points of view that can’t be easily classified.  We disproportionately lionize and demonize our public figures, assigning them in roles in our minds rather than considering them as human beings.  And we continue to demand what we’ve been trained to demand: all or nothing, now or never, you or me.

And that, at the risk of being reductive, is a bad plan for the future.

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  • dkv
    Heroes and Villans are not necessary for any story but then the story will become very boring and who wants that? Boredom causes grief and sorrow.
  • I agree with you, but I think it's false dichotomy, not simplicity. Add the desire to avoid the effort and responsibilities of nuanced, critical thinking, and you've got a recipe for polarized disaster.
  • Jehoshua: I see your point, and I agree with your more nuanced breakdown of story structure; I've always felt "three-act" was inelegantly applied. (Specifically, the 2nd act always feels muddy and the 3rd act is rarely emphasized.)

    But if that's the way to understand narratives, what do we do with stories that *aren't* narratives? What do we do with complexities like world news, politics, art? Surely we can't reduce all conflicts to a matter of heroes and villains competing over a prize, can we? (And what about information that *isn't* a "conflict" to begin with? Do we have to invent heroes and villains there, so people will care about the "outcome"?)

    Andre: Great observation about technology limiting our willful exposure to conflicting opinions. I attended a lecture last weekend about "The Lonely American," which mentioned that many of the public acts which used to deposit us shoulder-to-shoulder with our neighbors & fellow citizens (who may differ from us in opinion) are now automated or done online, further reducing our opportunity to engage "the other" in person.

    To me, defending your opinions face to face, or dissecting an issue from multiple POVs in person, requires different social skills than being able to debate someone from the anonymous privacy of the web. If those abilities continue to erode, I fear it'll take events on the scale of national disasters to rekindle them.
  • Andre Davis
    Excellent post, Justin! This is something that my friends and I have been discussing here and there for sometime now. I think the issue gets even worse when you consider the fragmentation of information in our society today. It's too easy to bookmark or DVR the sources that we agree with. The ones that we feel best reflect our own sense of self and beliefs. The danger is, like you said, who has time to research opposing viewpoints? Technology is there to help us filter through the crap, right? To help us get more of what we want (not need). The result is group think on a massive scale.

    Our "on-demand" culture seems to be pushing us backwards in some ways. Back to a time when the average person spent his whole life within 20-30 miles of home. Today we venture farther from the home on a daily basis - physically. Our minds however, are finding it easier and easier to stay local. And just like those people in the past that spent their whole lives close to home, our minds rarely come across anything that asks or forces us to question our beliefs or consider other perspectives. We don't feel the need, because most things in our little spheres of information agree with and support our point of view. That confirmation allows us to feel justified. All too often the only exposure we have to different perspectives is a filtered, second-hand version delivered by a familiar source along with his/her rebuttal. Confirmation, ensuring us that what we originally believed is in fact correct and that no additional consideration is necessary. Our subsequent actions and behavior are justified.

    I think this is a truly frightening trend.
  • I'm with Delaney, and CoCo for that matter... ;) People can be good AND bad all at the same time. And they can fluctuate back and forth over time.

    We're complicated.

    In movies, the best we can hope for seems to be the open ended ending, without a sequel. Not providing closure is upsetting but also gratifying in some ways. It's a truer reflection of life, in my opinion.
  • I think we're losing (or have lost) the "and" in the way we shape our stories. Everything is framed in as an "either/or" zero sum game. The McLuhanite in me says this is a result of the pervasive presence of digital technology in every aspect of our lives. At the heart of all of this technology is a simple "on/off" proposition. There's no room for ambiguity.
  • The story framework is 1)Character, 2)Desire, 3)Conflict/Risk, and 4)End where desire is achieved by overcoming risk. The reason it is a basic and recognizable framework is that this is how we process our experiences:

    1)"Character" - Our past choices and backstory
    2)"Desire" - what we expect to happen (gain) in the situation 3)"Conflict/Risk - What do we have to overcome to satisfy our expectations?
    4)"End" - What is the actual outcome of reality and is it greater or lesser than we expected?

    Don't hate the framework, it's a basic component of our existence. How people choose to use it however is usually banal, bullshit even. There is reason for this though.

    There are only two ways to really make a story interesting. One is make the "character" and "desire" relevant to the reader. That takes a fair amount of pre-planning and effort. Hard to do on a mass level and most people are lazy, so they choose option 2... crank up the conflict! The greater the risk or conflict/obstacle, the more people will pay attention. Simple as that. But if you have basically the same characters and desires with an artificially excited conflict, over and over again, that's where frustration sets in.

    The complexity YOU want is in the character, the pursuit of his or her desire, and the consequences of that choice on the other facets of his or her life... the deeper issues. But until people become more conscious of the stories all around them, they will prefer the excited conflict model because it requires less effort, time, and mental resources.

    Sorry for the ramble, I think I have just written a few blog posts here... Do you understand where I'm coming from at least?
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